Often times the first step in dealing with active addiction is confronting the insidious denial and rationalization that incrementally builds up and protects that which does not want to be given up – the object of addiction. Facing the nuanced truth of how substance use effects us and spiders out to those closest to us, along with cultivating honesty with ourselves and others can start to establish the recovery process in our daily lives.
The process of recovery is anything but the linear abstraction seemingly portrayed by programs and its representation in the general media. The reality of relapse and repeated effort is near inevitable and if properly supported can even be a rite to enter a more mature stage of determination for change and recovery. When the cycle of use gives way it is in large part by establishing supports in the form of trusted social connections that respect our choice of cessation. These healthy social bonds along with a meaningful structure to progress within and rely on in times of pain and doubt, can provide the scaffolding needed for authentic and lasting recovery.
